其实常常觉得寂寞,才是比谁都坚强的人_亚洲头条

身为人总有孤独的时候,尤其在疫情肆虐、世道不好的现在,我们都有各自的烦恼、正卡住的关,夜深人静,关暗灯光时,一个人准备睡觉时,偶尔会被突如其来的寂寞感打扰得不得安宁,但却无人可诉说。或许自己不懂得如何形容,所以总是思来想去为这些杂讯失眠,三更半夜不睡觉只为了消化自己的孤独感。一时的情绪也好,失恋、工作低潮和朋友争吵也好,其实有很多人都一样,就连名人也是一样,会有人懂得你内心的孤独难受,听听他们的孤单,了解自己其实你并不特别脆弱,甚至比想像中坚强。

Anne Hathaway

“The thing that I’m most worried about is just being alone without anybody to care for or someone who will care for me. That horrible feeling of isolation is something that I hope I never have to deal with again.”

「我最担心的事就是孤独,没有人可以关心,也没有人照顾我,希望我不要再遭受这样的事。」

Cara Delevingne

“It felt like I was completely alone and I couldn’t express myself because I felt ashamed of my emotions. I want to make sure that kids realize that emotions and vulnerability are important and should be spoken about.”

「我觉得我非常孤单,而且无法表达自我,因为我为我的情绪感到羞耻。我想确保孩子们了解,情感和脆弱是一件很重要、也必须被说出来的事。」

Robert Pattinson

“People don’t realize how lonely you are. In any case, I feel fortunate because success didn’t reach me very young, at least, I had the opportunity to have a life before.”

「人们不会知道你有多孤独。但无论如何,我还算幸运,因为没有在太年轻的时候成功,至少在这之前,我可以过上真正的人生。」

Lady Gaga

“I’m alone, Brandon. Every night. And all these people will leave, right? They will leave and then I’ll be alone. And I go from everyone touching me all day and talking at me all day to total silence.”

「每个晚上,我都是一个人。所有人最后都会离开,对吧?他们会走,而我会独自留在原地。从整天都有人和我说话、谈论我的地方,到最后还是只能彻底沉默。」

Britney Spears

“It can be lonely at times. You never know who to trust, and some people can be fake. I have a very small circle of friends, and simply do what makes me happy !!!”

「常常觉得很寂寞,你不知道能相信谁,谁又是虚伪的。我的交友圈很小,所以要逗我开心还满容易的。」

Gisele Bündchen

“Sometimes we feel alone, as if there is no way out, but that is not true. My panic attacks were difficult, and I sought help from my family, specialists, teachers, and friends. Asking for help is never a sign of failure but a sign of strength because your life is worth saving.”

「有时候我们会觉得孤单,好像走投无路,但这都不是真的。在恐慌症发作的痛苦时刻,我寻求家人、专家、老师和朋友的帮助。求助,不代表失败而是一种强大,因为你真的很珍贵,值得被这个世界强力保护。」

Selena Gomez

“You have to figure out the people that are in your circle,” she added in the interview. “I feel like I know everybody but have no friends … it feels great to be connected to people, but having boundaries is so important. You have to have those few people that respect you, want the best for you and you want the best for them.”

「你必须弄清楚朋友圈里的每个人。我总觉得,每个人我都认识,却没有一个人是朋友…。与人建立关系的感觉很好,可是设定界线也很重要。你必须要有一些尊重你,总是为你好,而你也只想对他们好的朋友。」

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